26 reactions | My Dom pre-frames spankings. Before he starts, he asks, "Do you know why I’m doing this?" I answer, "So I can stay a good girl and be obedient this week." Pre-framing transforms dominance from mechanical to meaningful, letting me internalize obedience as growth. ➡️ Search 'Dom Sub Living Podcast' wherever you listen to/watch podcasts. | Dom Sub Living | Facebook

Contrary to what you might believe, being in a 24/7 Dom/sub marriage isn’t such a serious thing. I get where this comes from. Most of what people see about power exchange, especially 24/7, makes it look heavy. Intense. Like you’re walking around in a kink scene 24/7, and one wrong move breaks the whole thing. But that’s a level of pressure that just isn’t realistic. And it’s not our experience either. What’s actually happened is that submission has helped Dawn feel more free. More alive. She lau