A helpmate is not supposed to carry your weight, handle your responsibilities, or suffer under your stress just because you’re too weak to provide, protect, and lead.A woman is not financial plan. She is not here to absorb your anxiety because you refuse to step into your masculine role. A real man creates security, not stress. He eases his woman’s load, not adds to it.Too many men want a woman to help them, but what they really mean is carry them. And that’s exactly why they stay stuck, struggl